Oh my goodness thank you everyone!! I didnt see that you all had posted at first because it went to page 3 . I was looking under my post for replies. I feel so much better seeing everyones replies thank you. I do not have time right now to address the questions and concerns but I will.. promise. A few quick things though to give more consideration. No H hasnt been seeing her since 2008. They began talking again about 6 mo ago. She is married as well w/ kids and GC . He wasnt seeing her often before when we were together and maybe seen her once since seperation. He told me yesterday its been 2 months and im pretty positive that is acurate just because I know what hes been upto because ive seen him on weekends and he would need to travel as she is out of town . Thank god. I also told him that if he wanted me to give up on us and move on that he could be honest with me , that I am a much stronger person than before and he said he wasnt ready to make that decision right now. I am content knowing that for now he isnt saying hes completely over me. I have hope. I did tell him he runs a risk of waiting too long that I may not want him back later on. It does depend on what happens in the future.. I will adress more later today .. getting a life tonight so depends on my arrival time back home. Haha... thank you all again.. I really appreciate your time questions and suggetsions even tho I had to throw a fit to get some.
Married 1991 D 32 GD 12 D 30 GD 3 S 29 M 58 S 57 1st bomb 2008 2nd bomb 4/2015 same person New bomb 09/24 I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.
