WAS or what (2)

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Sandi
Reading all your posts esp recent ones to ghost and your new we thread, I have a question about my situation, that I would like to hear from you about.
Living together. ....... albeit as roommates..... how do I regain my wife's respect ? I know there is no magic bullet etc. I see many lbs struggling with that one esp when still living together. I have not even had an official bomb drop. I have valued your previous insights and follow ad much as possible your advice of GAL, 180s and detach.

Is it advised to continue that for as long as it takes and see what happens after limboland. Your recent postings to others indicate such limbo can last years.

You often speak of a strong sign and making W realise she is losing H.. I would be interested in your (and other vets) views.
I know some vets such ad georgiabulldog advocate a tough move.

I am detaching and slowly my mindset is changing.