Originally Posted By: HurtJef
BE,

I am so sorry that you are at this point. It sounds like you have given up all hope.

You will be in my prayers and I hope that your agony subsides and gives you some peace. You have worked hard and I hope you don't think it was all for nothing. Time has a way of changing and calming our lives, I know you have given up on your M, but there are plenty of couples that get back together down the road after a divorce. My grandparents did. My aunt and uncle did.

I guess that all I will say to you is that it is over...but only because you have said it is over. You have given up. It never mattered what she was doing. Most of the LBS in this forum have D papers sitting in their house right now and haven't given up.
Love those kids with everything you have. Keep being the good man you are.

Make yourself happy



I don't want to give up Jef. But what else am I to do?