Vge, I’m so sorry you have to go through all this BS. Your H is irrational and trying to pick the fight with you in every interaction. He is one unhappy man who is trying to justify his choices by blaming everything on you. All his comments to his friends and family look so childish, like he is trying to let everyone know that he is in a better place now. My take on this is that he knows he made bad choices and hurt a lot of people, he just doesn’t want to admit it. So, he is trying to do everything possible to make himself a victim. And you’re an enemy? Give me a break.
At some point, this is not going to work for him anymore. It will be a rude awakening for him. His friends are going to see the truth eventually. Doesn’t mean that they will disown him or whatever. They will just avoid him at all cost.
I just cannot believe this man. I was reading your post and started to feel a lot of anger towards him. And I don’t even know him. I think you are doing the right thing, not responding to his spews. I don’t know if it is possible in your case, but I would not deal with him directly, but through some mediator.
Vge, I’m not a religious person, but I truly believe that the truth will be revealed and they all get what they sowed… H, his parents, ow, etc. Stay strong.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state