BEC - From all of your posts for three months, your whole focus has been on W. Maybe now you will be able to really look inside and save YOU first.
100% agreed.
My first 3 months was all about trying to save the M. That was impossible, because that hinges on another person I can't control. The only failure is to keep trying to control other people and avoid changing your own world, for YOU.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15