Until my accident last week I had been working out and walking 2 miles a day. I have lost down to 232 from 265. I know that she has noticed because she told some friends that I was looking good and she did not understand why I was not working out for a year while unemployed. This all started after her dad died and she started texting a friend and her brother from her hometown whose dad was also sick. They have manipulated her and talked crap about me and he fell for it. I have also been going to all of my daughters softball games (travel ball) and these usually were from Thurs to Saturday or Sunday. She always wanted me to keep her informed on how my daughter was doing. It is hard not talking to her while we live in the same house but maybe I need to look at it as she is still here. Any help or encouragement is appreciated.