Mavrik,

Good to hear that you are trying, way to go! Every situation is different, of course, but it does sound like living in the same house makes it more difficult on you. For now, don't worry about speaking with her. If you force the issue, it will make her feel pressured.

Sending out the bat light for the vets like Wonka, Sandi, MrBond, 25 and others. Mavrik could really use your help!

In the meantime, do your best to focus on making yourself a better person. We all need to do that. Take things one small step at a time and keep a PMA.

We have your back...we'll help you thru these troubling times.

Take care of yourself, ok? Promise?

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15