i have been trying to do some of that. I have been going out with friends. Went to the beach for a few days. We still live in the same house and I think that makes it hard. I don't want her to leave but it does make it hard when she refuses to talk to me. Like I said earlier, when i was in the hospital she got mad at my daughter for taking the wife responsibilties from her. She made the comment several times that she was taking over. I told her I would get my mom to give me a ride. She said, I don't want anyone saying I did not show up at the hospital or that I would not come get you. I told her I told my mom I didn't want her to miss anymore work. The next day she called and said she could come get me. I told her a couple of times it was ok I had a ride but she said a couple more times that she could come get me so I say ok come get me. But then back to the old ways. My question is she is worried about people saying she wasn't at the hospital or wouldn't come get me but she is gonna be ok with people saying her husband got burned and she waited until he was better then she left.
