Sh!t thing is that I've suddenly started renumerating again. I had this so under control and perhaps its because of the boys birthday but I'm struggling to keep her out of my head.
Hi NDY!
Thank you for the post in my thread. It meant so much to me.
Birthdays, anniversaries, "special" songs are just some examples of "triggers." Do you recall when I heard the song "With or Without You" by U2 on the radio? One of our favorite songs. I had been doing well until I heard that. I had tears welling up in my eyes for at least 20 minutes after that.
What you felt is very normal. Then, on top of that, seeing your W dressed like that can be really tough. She sounds like a very pretty woman. I always loved it when my W had her hair pulled back loosely.
Stay stong and keep a PMA. Also, thank you for the heads-up about some newbies on the board. That's just like you--always putting others first. I'm doing my best to "spread the love." LOL
Get out as much as you can. Have some fun and take things a day at a time.
Your friend,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
