Hello Jeff,

Thank you for the words of encouragement in my thread. You are a Rock Star.

I feel the same way as you do. I do not want a divorce but will not stand in my wife's way if that is the road she chooses. In my case, this has been going on since October. My IC is still trying to get me to move on and forget about my W. He knows how I feel. Why do I still see him? Because he does have some good advice and he helped me, along with the wonderful people on this board, to have the courage to go out and actually enjoy myself.

What type of GAL activities have you done recently? Something that you REALLY enjoy. GAL and not worrying about the future have helped me very much. If you want to fight for your M, do it! grin

I'll dedicate a prayer for you right after this post.

I wish you well.

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15