Help for LBH who has a WW (new thread)

[714Dad]

Is there more info on the board for the LBH of a WAW?

I've read the 4 thread epic of WAW vs WW, and it has a lot of good stuff. Is there anything like this thread for the WAW?

Ideas, stories, tips, advice?

I believe I have a WAW more than a WW, so I want to make sure I don't do something too drastic in my situation and use a WW tactic on a WAW, thereby alienating her even more.

The DR book has a little on it, but DB doesn't have even an index listing for WAW.

and yes I'm following the 37 rules. There just seems to be some stuff where i need to be her friend if she's a WAW, but go dark if she's a WW.

She just called now and is calm and deliberate. talking about separating everything and it's just agonizing to try to be positive and chipper through the whole thing.

i need to know how to talk to her.