Originally Posted By: Mavrik
I found this site about 2 months ago and I am afraid that I ruined it before I found this site. I did all the things that are wrong, I cried begged, pleaded.

Hi Mavrik,

I'm really sorry you have to be here, but this is the right place for great advice and emotional support. When you have time to read other people's situations (I started posting on Christmas Day last year) I think most, if not all of us, did many wrong things at first. But, it sounds to me like you still have time on your side so don't beat yourself up over it.

Those that know me on this forum would probably write that I felt just like you do now. Nine months later, I am still DBing. So, will this be easy? No. But if you feel your M is worth fighting for, never give up! Try to GAL and keep a positive attitude. It has helped me SO much. You CAN do this.

Your new DB friend,

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15