Since I got out of the hospital my wife has been giving me the cold shoulder. Sandi was right. She is now going into my 17d bedroom and watching tv. my daughter is out with friends. This can not go on forever. She will be going to Pennsylvania on Friday for her mother's birthday. I am sure she will probably see her EA. I part of me wants her to stay in Pennsylvania. I feel that she isn't gonna change until she goes to her prince charming and finds out that he is a frog. I don't want a divorce and I don't want her to leave but I have been thinking about telling her that a part of me wishes she would stay in Pennsylvania. So what do the vets think about this. Please give me some advice.