Hey dcjal I just wanted to send you some positive thoughts. I know that dinner had to be tough. H and I have been separated since May and have not had a meal together or any interaction that didn't involve our son so kudos to you. H would say that to me too. "You think I am not having a hard time with this either?"
I hope the coaching sessions help you.
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15