It sounds like you are on the right track. It feels good when there are more good days than bad days. It takes time and work to heal and move on. Best to do the work now. Many ( like my ex) jump right in to a new relationship. This prevents reflection, growth and grieving. One day when you are well and healed your ex will be dealing with the emotional fall out of all this as I'm sure mine will too.
Cheers,
Karma
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.