Suppose you were a LBH and your WW had moved out, had a series of A's, and finalized a D.
Knowing what you know...is that something you'd be able to forgive should she be open to R? How long do you think you'd be able to wait to see if things ever turned around?
My D's almost final and I have some of my own answers on this. I know everyone has their own lines on when they close the door to R, what boundaries are unforgivable in the sense of not being able to brush them aside and recommit to an M, etc. I'm just wondering what yours would be.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15