Reading your posts... Seems like you are only gong to pick and choose what you want to hear and apply it to what you want to do , I've seen others do this then only after they've created a complete mess do they really start to become humble and admit they need help.
I would suggest a number of things, but I do know when there are times you just have to allow a person to fall all on their own
I wish you the best with your approach, I do not believe this will do anything more than make your W run faster and harder
