Surviving the rollercoaster by getting off two.

[Mom22]

Well kudo's to you my dear. I mean I do understand my ex is having a MLC too and has issues w his untreated ADHD but I dont think I d ever take him back. He will always blame every thing bad on other people. I think when his girls tell him like it is one day he ll even manage to blame them for being 'unreasonable and insensitive'. Thats also why he can not be happy.
So again I truly admire you. You are an example. Some part of me wishes I had more faith like you.

Im doing fine. Exhausted, eapecially on the nights both my toddler and my baby wake up, but fine. I enjoy them both so much. I ve got them both for 11d in a row bc my ex is on a holiday w his new gf (my daughter cried bc she couldnt come). Im beat but also trying to make it a fun time for my DD by doing loads of fun stuff. I meet up w my friends (with baby bc she refuses bottle... Will be an issue when i go back to work in 2weeks) and generally have a splendid time. I really enjoy being in my own place and being able to see everyone and not being continuously treated like c**p. And I so much enjoy my kids!

Looking forward to hearing your updates!