At the end of the day it comes down to willingness on both sides. I'd like to think marriage is a sacrament. It still is to me but as long as one party does not participate then is it really a marriage?
Reflection is good but actions are more reliable. I am more cynical these days but I still believe in my vows to my husband. That being said - you can't fix this so acceptance is not always a bad thing.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou