Looking for advice and comfort

[PT33]

Thank u toots for ur encouraging words. I have been seeing an IC the entire 4 months. My wife told me yesterday that she will be going to stay with a friend when she gets back from seeing her brother. Then she will stay there until she can get a place in LA that will take our boxer. We have two dogs and I am heartbroken that I will never see him again. So I will stay here in the house with my sister until it sells. I am devastated, I don't understand. She said that she is unhappy and doesn't have it in her to try again that I was given a chance last yr. I did not know this at the time. Everyone has told her to give us another chance but she said they don't understand.

I spent most of yesterday crying with my mom. Trying to figure out why. How someone cud give up so easily on our marriage because they weren't happy. Even though I made all the changes and made myself a better person. I don't get how she could be so in love with me and then not be because of the normal ups and downs of marriage. I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with her.