Private Messaging (PM) is not used on the Divorcebusting Forums. This function has never been activated and probably won't be. In my opinion, it is not activated because they want you to post your questions, issues, etc. on the public forum so that others can assist you.
Only use the "notify" button when you are having issues with set up, need something removed or help w/linking threads, etc. It is not an option to have a one-on-one with a moderator every time you post.
