Yeah too late, I caved in the first 20 minutes was "light convo" turned into convo about her EA turned PA. Fun times to talk about that. Luckily I didn't turn into some blubbering mess and didn't start pointing out our relation good parts...etc
I just listened asked her qustions and she wanted to talk about a plan going forward. I told her her I'm not moving out and I dont want to sell the house yet, I'm fixing it right now and maybe later I will. I thought it was best for our kids if they at least had one constant in their lives. She thought it was best if he stayed in the hosue with the kids. I told her I'm not moving out I'm not the one with the A and I'm not the one who wants to leave the marriage. She made a comment about maybe she would just leave on her own then to which I had no reply.
So Not the best way to have spent my 1.5 hours last night but she just wouldn't let it go and wanted to be able to get some crap off her chest I guess, really nothing she said wasn't something I had either found evidence about or already guessed was true.
So now...what next? I get back home tonight, do I just keep doing the rules? until she moves herself out?
