Little, I think that is an excellent post from V. Please read, re-read and read that one again. And if you make your own plans based on her advice, I don't think you can go too far wrong. It takes courage to face the fear that you will drive him further away. But truth is, he couldn't be much further away anyway - so what do you have to lose??

Good luck my friend xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus