Hi Peter, I'm sorry to hear that. Ah - more limbo and another reason for you not to upset the apple card. Your W wants time with brother and Mum without you pressuring her. You know that after this there will be a new reason and more limbo don't you?
Your W isn't interested in having a good M with you just now. And likely you are in for more of the same if you choose to continue on your current path. I don't think she will wake up unless there is a significant change. And you don't want to move because you just laid a new patio???
Putting your W to one side just now. What sort of life do YOU want to live, and are you living that life right now? Do you want to be stuck in a 'half-marriage' with someone who doesn't even want to make it better?
If you aren't, it is within your gift to make decisions towards living life as you want it to be. I truly hope that you decide to stand up for your own life and happiness, because I think you are stuck right now.
Good luck to you if you do - there will be plenty of support and encouragement on this forum whichever way my friend.
Take care xx
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