Don't do anything. NOTHING. Read every link in cadet's welcome email, particularly the WW vs WAW links. Read other people's sitch's. Stay distant from WAS.
Maybe if you spend 1-2 hours on this board daily, in a week or two you'll have some ideas on how to handle yourself. Anything you do without 10-20 hours of study first will likely be a disaster.
Is your M worth that preparation and effort?
Just my 2 cents...
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
