Hi 4M, I do think you're making progress. You are posting and clearly thinking about things. Recognising some of the patterns and so on. I think the big thing to let go of is 'changing him.' And I think the big things to focus on are your own self esteem, self-respect and finding the strength you need to move forward, even though you feel fearful. You only get to control you..

It is a couple of steps forward and one back, particularly in the early days - but baby steps remember?

xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus