So a petition for legal separation has been file. I filed because he wouldn't end the affair or move voluntarily. The legal filing got him moving. H has started moving things to storage and will not be living here after Aug. 6th, although he will have to come back and get furniture for his apartment before August 18. I have some evidence that OW may be moving in with him but he denies it. She lives in NJ. We live in Mo. She grew up in Mo. and has family here. H said her husband knows and I also have evidence that she is planning to leave him. (all circumstantial) H had done nothing to indicate he is will end EA and has not reached out to me emotionally or physically in a couple of months. (since the time I think they first spent the night together). He is isolating himself from friends/family but texts/talks to OW constantly. She is the only voice in his head. I am trying to GAL but have told him that if we ultimately divorce it is up to him. I don't ask him to end the affair or try to convince him to save the marriage. I don't say I love you. I pretty much think our marriage is hopeless. Trying very hard to detach and move on. This really [censored].
Me: 53 1st marriage H-48 - 2nd marriage H has grown kids Married 13 years DB/EA - 6/25/15 I filed for separation 7/20 H moving out
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
