Well my wife is back to giving me the silent treatment. She told me last night that somebody told her that I stood up in front of the church and asked for prayers for my family and marriage. I did not do that. It confuses me because she wanted to be the emergency contact person and was upset that my daughter used her name as the emergency contact. Also was mad that my daughter was talking to the doctor and my mother talked over her to a volunteer that was trying to locate my after surgery. It was almost like she wanted the responsiblity of being my wife. She was obviously jealous of my d27. Now that I am home she is back to her silent treatment. She tried to start a fight about the church because My pastor had sent her an email telling her God was not bless was she was doing. When she responded to him he told her that he was there to help anyway he could but his fear is that by the time she is willing to work on the marriage I will no longer have the desire. He told her I know you think he will always be there waiting for you to work on the marriage but I promise you this is faulty thinking.