As long as all her physical and emotional needs are being met, she will have these "highs". There may even be times she will pretend she's happy b/c she doesn't want to admit anything is less than perfect with her and OM.
She has to go through a process. It is not microwaveable.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!