When you must respond toTM, try using as few words as possible. The more you say, the wider you open the door for her spew.

You are the one in control by using one to three word TM.

You did the right thing by not responding to the guilt card she played.

Last edited by sandi2; 08/01/15 05:18 PM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!