I am concerned for the LBH who is willing to settle, just so long as his W won't leave him. He holds the hope that things will work themselves out (false therory) or that in time the R will be "normal" (?) again.

This was discussed in the previous WW threads, about not letting her come back too quickly. Without repeating myself too much, I just want to tell newcomers that your M problems are not resolved on there own. Think of an alka-seltzer in a glass of water. First, the "plop-plop, fizz-fizz, oh what a relief it is". If left alone, it settles down, right? Yes, but the alka-seltzer is still there in the water. If undestrubbed, it will eventually settle to the bottom, just waiting to be stirred up again. That's the picture of what to expect if the LBH settles for being plan B.


Last edited by sandi2; 08/01/15 03:45 PM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!