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[Zues126]

You should be fed up. Here's the scenario:

You can't live like this
He won't change
The more you focus on trying to make him change, persuade him to change, beg him to change, bribe him to change, tempt him to change...that's more of the same, back to you can't live like this.

Your move. You want to talk to your FIL or H some more to try to get him to change? Or are you ready to accept this is reality and do something different like take care of yourself?