Hi NDY, just been catching up on your sitch. I finally L up this week asking them to draw out a consent order for the court. UK law. basically, it outlines what I want and it would be up to H to agree or not. This does not require the disclosure needed for a financial order EXCEPT for the finances related to the consent order.
A blessing for me, H says he does not want to see me short so will agree on 50/50 house and pension. This is the ONLY thing we are splitting. I am paying half the bills for the house etc as we speak and H earns twice that i do. Ironically, L says I will probably get maintenance. Not going there. Funny as H says I am too independent and he is fed up with living in my shadow. Plus the emotional abuse, of course!
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15
