Great thread. The only thing I will add, as a current LBS, is it will take a couple of months to get the courage/confidence back to do the things sandi2 has said.
It's hard, but you can see things differently when you start. Just don't go back too soon or falling for some of the WAS tricks, otherwise, you'll go back to square one! From experience.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
