Newcomer's sad story

[ATPeace]

Gabs

Your thoughts are exactly the same as mine or at least exactly as my thoughts were.

Your W and you are at two completely different time zones she has been feeling her pain for a number of years exactly the same as me and my wife.

When people talk about quicksand this is what it feels like but her mind was made up years ago just like my W made her mind up

I have done all the things you have said you are doing and it has not worked I am not giving up but I am starting to move forward.

The pain gets less each day and not a day goes by when I think if only she could give me one more chance I would show her how different I would be....but she wont she does not want to be back at the point of feeling so hurt,she has cried her tears years ago and has spent time with me in the M to justify why she should get out of our M

I am not sure if my W and I living together in the same house is for the best or not yes it keeps us all together but it is just so painful we are in limbo and I do not know how long to do this for.

I really feel your upset but you like myself have to move on from this so try to be strong and become a better Gab

Take care