Sunny spot on! I only watch them a few hours on Saturdays while we sleep right after races usually! He hasn't normally gone out with OW if we have the kids. R did in the beginning but I put my foot down. Now this month I did watch them twice while he went out but only because I do not want them in the middle of this and he will do that because he is sure they are going to be together and he loves her blah blah but due to his actions I doubt it! She has not met family in the year they have been together still ML with me I still live here she still lives with ex husband ect. We have not told kids we are not together as everything at home is the same except kissing holding hands and ILY we still cuddle on couch and everything else is run the sAme! I also tend to pick up for the mom of oldest also doing all activities the running ect! I feel he should step up but I also feel that puts the kids in a bad sitch. I do not want them confused or hurt. I am not sure since im planning to be here another 10 months it's a good idea to tell them or let them be around OW as the two older ones are smart enough to ask questions! Unfortunanly I feel protecting them is more important. Partly because I do not feel this A will turn into anything but if it does than he can explain when it's time for me to leave. I am getting scared it could work as it's been a year and he is spending more time with her in the weekends! Please don't feel i don't agree I do if I was planning to leave soon I would be all over letting him see what it's like. I could ask he does more of the communicating though let him have more responsibility
