My wife and I have always had our ups and downs, last year she started going to the gym and I noticed a big change in her demeanor, she told me she gets hit on by men all the time, she stopped wearing her wedding ring, cause it didn't fit her, I would find it in the car, etc. I suspect EA, but I don't know what to think anymore. A huge hole in my heart for sure.
Yes obeying GOD is the way, Ive asked her to go to church with me and say its too far or too early, etc. But will travel over 10miles to go to 1 specific gym... go figure.