Hi TO. Yes Train has given me a lot of great advice.

He hasn't been home for month and this discussion was on our drive home from the airport. I don't ever bring up the OW NEVER. He brought it up because he was telling me what he was going to say to the kids. Also, he never brings OW up either. He says we are separated and basically it's none of my business.

Now that he's been home for a day, he will see me GAL. I will try my best to be friendly but distant. I've been invited out to a few places this weekend and normally I'd ask him to come but not now. He can sit at home and wonder what I'm up to.