Anybody have any advice? Technically I'll be DB'ing in the meantime anyway but my ditch seems hopeless...she's nothing like I want to be..she belches & farts in front of him and bosses him around..she's kinda manly actually and she works with him and talks about man stuff with him..she has green eyes and black hair like he likes..I'm really feminine,kinda old school I rather stay at home with my kids instead of work and do the womanly stuff..she's also aggressive and kinda weird idk how to describe it but she seems to be the type hr wants and I'm opposite but I love the way I am and the way I want to be when I reach my goals..I'm not changing my beliefs and the way I want to be for anyone so I guess he's just not the right man for me? Idk anymore..
All I know is he left us here and barely gibes any money until we go to court and his parents and mine have to take care of his family which he should be doing but no he's off screwing some other woman and happy as a clam about it..makes me sick..part of me thinks things will change in the next few months and the other part of me says good riddance


Me-30 H/STBX-32
Daughters-10,7,18 months
M-9 years T-11 years
A few BD's since 2011
H left-March 16,2015
H came back-June 6,2015
Kicked husband out BC he was still seeing OW-June 26,2015