Newbie needing support and advice

[PigPen]

Not sure of the specifics of your sitch Epo. But there was a great poster here a short time ago that was fond of asking all of us:

"Will what you want to do move you closer or further towards your goal?"

Personally I've found that my natural inclination is to screw things up from a DB standard. Yep, my way = why I'm here. The DB way = getting myself out of this mess one way or the other.

So if I ever want to do something; reach out to my W, send her a funny text, reply to an email as I normally would etc. I just don't. I figure if I want to do it, it's probably wrong.

Big hug to you either way,

PP