Why does he have to keep lying to me about everything? When I called to say goodnight to S4 last night before going to the movies he said he was going to dinner with his parents, just his parents and s4. His words. I found out on FB this morning that it was a goodbye dinner for his brother that is moving with the entire family.
I am so sad. I wanted to say goodbye to him and had no idea it was his going away dinner. I feel like I am being snuffed out of a family I have had for 13 years. Gawd it hurts so much. Why can't he ever just tell the truth? Do I call him out on it? I don't want to be a door may that can continue to be lied to. Part of me wants him to know. You lie. You get caught.
Well ... technically he did not lie ... He just did not tell you everything. Regardless WAS have 'fired' you ... and will only give out information on what they percieve is a 'Need to know' basis.
I understand your hurt here, calling him out on it will give you a chance to vent but does that help your cause? Get you closer to your goal? You can contact BIL and wish him well, DO NOT bad mouth H to him, his family will side with him .. take the high road here.
