NTGvUp, he is a WH, treat him like a dog that pee'd on the floor, rub his nose in what he is doing. I would tell the kids, his parents, his friends, everyone. Because before you know it, being "nice" and not saying anything will bite you in the butt. My WW has told people that I was abusive (physically/Emotionally), had multiple affairs and everything in between. I WISH I would have told everyone about her affair earlier on and shown the proof of it if I was doubted.


Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016