This is the perfect place to do both fdu. The more venting and thinking out loud you do here the more guidance you get.

Sorry you're here, keep doing what you're doing. There are layers to all of this and after you're around for a bit you start to see them. In the beginning it just seems like counter intuitive mayhem, so trust the process. None of it is as easy at it looks on paper, you're doing well so far though.

What are you doing to work on yourself? To get a life?

Let the board know and you'll have lots of support. There are tons of great people here working the same process you are.


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