Wife left with kids yesterday...

[PigPen]

I agree with Azzork, fdu. You want to bring another woman into the picture while all of this is going on?

Do you see that as making your situation more or less confusing. Is it fair to that other woman to be brought into the middle of a storm like this?

Would you want to go out on a date with a woman who's husband had just left her and she was hoping to use your relationship as a way to make herself feel better?

You're going to hear this all over this board - slow down and start working on you. It takes a long time to change you. Longer than you think. It runs deep. It may take years for you to be in a position to date again. It may not.

But let's say it does. Why date before then? To make the pain go away for now? You can't outrun this kind of pain, nor cover it up with another woman. It will always find a way to come back to the surface.

Work on yourself. Lots of it. Like your life depends on it.