Help for LBH who has a WW (new thread)

[Wonka]

(((Sandi)))

Thank you, sweetie.

Saw this comment from a very greenhorn newbie LBH that I think captures the essence of their very thought process.

Needing some concrete advice.. Your work is cut out for you.. Give me a next step. I understand self help (activities / exercise / be happy) but I believe if I do nothing the marriage ends!

The bolded section is where I think a lot of newbie LBHs go awry.

Would you please expand on this process, why it happens frequently, and why this is the faulty thought process in terms of DBing, using your own experience as a former WAW....Sandi?

Cadet,

I am wondering if it would be possible to link up all of the LBHs resources to include this thread in your welcome post?

Edit - Wonka all the threads are linked together and the first post is already linked in the welcome post, at the end of each thread a link takes you to the next thread.
I think it is fine the way it is set up for those that want to do the homework. - Cadet