Cali, I'm going to read up on your sitch tonight. I know you've been at this for a while and I'm just in the early stages; it's really overwhelming to think about it. But I'm committed and hopeful that I have at least a chance. I know I should be focused on me and the kids, but today has been a tough one for whatever reason, and I'm really missing my W. It's been a struggle to not reach out to her, but I stick to the plan. Thanks for the support.
HA... bring a snack lunch ... I think I have about 18 threads (no joke) and I have been here now a year. It was a long process, my W was MLC ... the approach is the same but there are some differences. I do think had she been a typical WW I would have pushed harder than I did. I made mistakes along the way .. but the personal growth was well worth it all.