Great advice guys. I actually did end the call first when talking to WW yesterday, but it was one of the first times. She often beats me to the punch, but I'm learning. Need to start counting sentences or something. I know I always felt terrible when she did it to me. And of course, after I ended that call yesterday, I got the barrage of TMs, to which I replied a total of 3 times. Compared to something like 12 TMs from her, so I was proud of that as well. The techniques mentioned here and in the books are so powerful, and work so well, it's almost an unfair advantage. But I'll take any edge I can get in this war on my family.
Cali, I'm going to read up on your sitch tonight. I know you've been at this for a while and I'm just in the early stages; it's really overwhelming to think about it. But I'm committed and hopeful that I have at least a chance. I know I should be focused on me and the kids, but today has been a tough one for whatever reason, and I'm really missing my W. It's been a struggle to not reach out to her, but I stick to the plan. Thanks for the support.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.