My H says his R with OW is nobody else's business but his and the OW. I cannot believe the arrogance!
He is going to tell the kids next week that we are separating but will not tell them about OW. He said that I can tell them if I want. I don't think I do want to tell them anything. I think it's better that he keeps HER his "dirty little secret" then he will realize how wrong it is.
Sometimes I look at him and wonder what the heck I'm thinking trying to save our marriage. Some of the stuff that comes out of his mouth is pretty ballsy for an adulterer. And I just have to take it. Some days I'd like to let him have it. I want to spew out everything that I am really thinking. But for now, I'll bite my tongue, smile, and be light and breezy. GRRRR....
