LBS trying to get it right

[ATPeace]

Hey huddy your not wrong there ....

Just been trying to give my W as much space as I can

Been at work most of the day then I get home do some house work and make the boys tea W and eldest D are going out for a meal tonight

TBH I find my days are all pretty much the same where as I used to

Get up leave for work before kids were awake and then get home at 4 take S to his tennis get home for arround 8
Play a couple of games on the computer
Sometimes chat to W sometimes not so much
Then bed ...not much of a life

Now Get up do some housework make breakfast for those that wish to be downstairs go to work come home play with kids for a bit then I might do bath time and bed time with youngest and then tidy house a little more then bed so even now I think ...no wonder our M went down hill I really do not know when we were suppost to do the fun things

So now I am advised to GAL and focus on me and I get this but during the M

I used to go out twice a week and play tennis and do things for me and not as a couple one of the things my W said I put myself and my hobbies before her and her needs....can't change this now

So working on detaching and putting my focus into spending more quality time with my children