All I can say 714 Dad is you are not alone. I read your story and it is as if I am reading my own. Some things just don't make sense. How can someone leave me when I am such a loving husband?

It may sound hypocritical since I am thinking about this every minute of every day, but focus on your girls. Try best to detach. Exercise seems to help me a lot. I'm down 25+ lbs and 10-15 lbs from my ideal weight.

I'm still skeptical of this forum, to be honest. I wonder how much of it is to sell expensive phone counseling. However, I agree that detaching for you and the sake of the R is best.


T:22 M:17
Me: 44YO Her: 42YO
1 son 13YO
BD 5/16/15
Her affair w/ OW 3/15-7/15
Her: ILYBNILWY